Touching base

February 8, 2020

creekside1983What is Tim doing? I asked the Lord one recent bedtime. It was just a random question before going to sleep; I don’t ask that every night any more, like I did a year ago. I got an instant answer and then a little explanation to go with it.

“Meeting with relatives.”

Oh, I thought. Ora Lee, Theron, T.C., Ninie, others of their family came to mind. When I began to visualize the way they looked the last time I saw them, I was quickly corrected.

“No, that’s not how they are here.”

Suddenly I received a new mental image of them, each one as an adult in the prime of their life, strong, vibrant and healthy. T.C. no longer looked like a 19 year old. Ora Lee didn’t look 87 and Tim didn’t look 60. They all looked around 30 years old or so.

That started a whole new conversation with the Lord, as he began describing these family meetings.

Their relationships on earth had certain characteristics: Tim was Ora Lee’s son, T.C.’s uncle, and Ninie’s nephew. Their life experiences were very different, person to person.

Their eras, education, friendships, cultures and societal standings were very different. Their relating to one another, their interests and conversations with each other singly or in family groups were on the basis of all of that.

But they’re not like that now. They relate to one another now as mature adults with a common status: all residing in heaven because of their commitment to Christ.

There are still differences, of course, and thus the meetings. Some have been there a long time, some a short time. Some have traveled and met many other residents, friends, relatives, characters from the pages of the Bible and secular history.

Some live in one community, some in another. Some are studying one thing, working at one thing. Others have different assignments, different habitats, even different ways of worship.

Some of these family members lived 100 years ago or longer – Tim had never met them here on earth. Neither had Ora Lee or Ninie, for that matter. Others in the meeting were great-great grandparents, cousins or aunts and uncles they never knew existed before reaching heaven.

The lives these relatives had enjoyed in heaven were longer than those they’d lived on earth. What memories they had to share, what adventures, discoveries, revelations and insights!

And so, from time to time they meet. They touch base and get to know one another, not as young versus old, ancestor versus descendant, but as equals: adult residents of heaven who share a common bloodline physically, and because of Christ, spiritually.

As I drifted off to sleep, I saw them milling around in someone’s living room, chatting in small groups, smiling and laughing, sharing interesting stories of their life, some listening intently, nodding their heads in agreement or understanding, gesturing with large arm movements, displaying the wide variety of human expressions you would see in any earthly family reunion. Wonderful.

“Family reunion” has acquired an entirely new definition and dimension for me.


  1. […] Read this post in one of my other blogs to see what I mean: https://speakingofheaven.wordpress.com/2010/02/13/touching-base/ […]

  2. Reblogged this on Esther's Petition and commented:

    Originally posted in 2010 in Speaking of Heaven, but it may help someone grieving today.

  3. I’m really glad you shared this with us. I think of Tim often. The photo you included reminds me of him and our relationship when I met him and got to know him. A very special friend and brother in the Lord. Special memories and one day stories will continue face to face once again. 🙂 –julian

  4. […] I began writing a blog about heaven some months after Tim died. Maybe reading through those posts will help somebody else. Here’s my favorite one:  https://speakingofheaven.wordpress.com/2010/02/13/touching-base/ […]

  5. I keep thinking of a lot of mine and Sue’s loved ones who have gone on. There is a great assurance of that special reunion because so many of them knew and served the Lord! Been thinking a lot more these last few months and even though I know we have to stay until our “job” is finished, it will be great to step over that “threshold” into a new life forevermore! Love you writing Sis and yes, it is comforting AND inspirational!

  6. This is a very interesting story. I am intrigued. I’ve had a dream or two about heaven; several of my extended family enjoyed fellowship together. Nobody seemed to be in a hurry.

    • Thanks for the comment, David. Hope you’ll keep reading, and keep commenting.

  7. I finally got the chance to read this Bette. Thank you for sending the link. What a great story, and your writing is almost effortless to read! I had a heavenly dream about my loved ones once. They were all gathered around fellowshipping just as you describe! Blessings.

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